Nothing will annoy them more...
“Always forgive your enemies; nothing annoys them so much.” ― Oscar Wilde
Do you like carrying anger around? I do it sometimes and it eats me up because I like a more balance atmosphere in my life and that does not include anger. I have had to learn to remove myself from toxic relationships.
Do not carry around things you cannot use. Choose to let go of that anger or resentment about something that has happened...whether you said it or someone else has said it. True forgiveness is only possible if we allow the spirit of God to work within us.
What will your choice be?
"Peter replied, “Repent and be baptized, every one of you, in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins. And you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit." Acts 2:38